Dating out of boredom
He's giddy and a show-off in a way that reminds you of him when you two started dating.
If your boyfriend can't even be bothered to take off your clothes or do anything but lay on his back, he's checked out.
or that you don’t love each other, it’s just that the relationship has lost its spark. You’ve put in tons of time, energy, and passion, but he’s still seeming like his mind is in another place.
The two of you may have run your course, or it might mean that you both need to put in more effort.
During my senior year of college, I knew that my boyfriend of three years was bored.
He didn’t break up with me for months and months, but I could tell that he was checked out for a while.
Here’s the thing: you deserve to be with someone who is excited to be around you. Because you’re awesome and interesting and complex.
If you’re getting the vibes that he finds you a snoozefest, let him go and get with someone who’d rather be with you than anywhere else.