18 year old guy dating a 26 year old
When my roommate and I go to a bar, we largely attract the attention of older men rather than males closer to our own age.
(By “older,” what I mean is “noticeably older than myself.” Like 15 years or more.) I’m not saying these older men act like they want to “hook up” with us – most of the time they’re just looking for a conversation. I’ve never had an older man ask for my number.) There been a few older men who were more overtly obvious about their intentions – I’ve had several blatantly walk up to me and say, “I think you’re beautiful” – but in those instances they’ve always said their piece and continued on their way.
My older sister was married to a man eleven years her senior (they’ve since divorced), and my younger sister is currently living with a man ten years older than she is.
A good friend of mine was married to a man fifteen years her senior for over six years (they married when she was nineteen).
” Does the possibility of being rejected not bother them as much?
I wouldn’t have any idea what to say to those people.On top of all that, I’m not looking for someone with a specific title – the man himself comes first.” So how old is “too old” for me? But having said that, I know age differences of ten years or more don’t bother everyone.I just don’t think “You’re beautiful” is a good opening line, no matter the person’s age – even if they’re thinking it; even if they really believe it to be true.) It’s not like we don’t catch younger guys looking at us – but they look from where they’re sitting, or standing.And I don’t have a problem talking to older men if they’re being nice, but I don’t see them as someone I’d want to go out with.
(Continuing on their way is a good move, because otherwise my response would be, “Thank you.
Now move along.” It’s not that I’m trying to be rude.